Great Blogs I’m Reading…

Looking for a new blog to read?

In the world of blogging, there are literally blogs for everything imaginable out there! I’ve been finding some really great ones lately, so here’s a list of a few I’ve stumbled across, that I’ve been reading for fun!

The Smart Lad
In one of my other lives (Not necessarily a past life, but another part of this life, a long time ago) I enjoyed indoor Bouldering. That’s when I wasn’t organizing and going on Wild Boar hunting trips (yes, wild stuff, but that’s for another blog post). I was excited to come across this blog, as there’s a lot of useful info about Rock Climbing and Hunting. My husband enjoys boar hunting as well, so he’s been reading too. So whenever your significant other is wondering what blog’s you’re into lately, send him here!

Mommy Tries
This blogger actually just stopped writing, and I became so upset-because this is a really funny blog! Full of posts from parenting, travel, reviews, children…and all so hilarious! The archive is still u and not going anywhere, and no matter my mood, the posts always put me in a better one. So if you need a good laugh, check it out!

Now That I Can Do, Mama!
I love fashion, even though it’s one passion I don’t actually blog about (yet), so I do stalk this blogger’s site for outfit inspiration. Succumbing to the pitfalls of “Mommy Frump”, I need a little help to ensure that I don’t just stay in yoga pants all the time. Not That there’s anything wrong with that. I love her style, and highly recommend this for her Fall wardrobe selections alone.


SAHD BLOG
Sometimes, it’s nice to see things from another perspective. Enter this blog, from a Stay At Home Dad. As a SAHM, I really enjoy his posts and take on things. Not many posts and hasn’t been updated in a while, but who knows, maybe we can initiate a comeback!

BeautyBets
I could spend all day and night on this Beauty blog. Hair, skin, nails, makeup, tutorials, reviews…it’s all here. I find it all informative and inspiring! The reviews are honest, so you don’t feel like you’re being sold anything. And the tutorials are very easy to follow, even for someone like me with limited hair experience. There’s enough content here, you can’t possibly get bored. In fact, I’ll bet you try everything!


So be sure to check these out – and if you are a blogger, comment below with your link!

Too Many Irons In The Fire

I don’t know who, if anyone has noticed, but I have been very quiet on the blog lately.

As it sometimes does, Life has a way of derailing things; goals, plans, and opportunities. Here, it’s really just been taking my attention away from writing and putting it elsewhere. But, when you take a break from certain things, that’s when your creative juices have time to start flowing, and ideas form.

Ideas, I’ve plenty. Time, however, is another issue.

Our little boy keeps us very busy. Play dates, family visits, and adventurous outings, keep us going a lot. So when we do have a quiet day at home, it’s cherished. My husband has new career opportunities he’s pursuing, and with them come the anxiety of moving to a new city. So between keeping the 13th month old busy, spending what time I can with my husband, and running a household in “on stand by to stand by” mode, at the end of the day; I’m exhausted. All I want to do is veg out, watch trash tv on my tablet, and procrastinate about finishing those four other articles I’m supposed to be writing.

It’s important to not allow yourself to be “spread too thin.” Even more so as a parent, and a partner. I hate not being able to commit to things as much as everyone wants, but sometimes, that’s just the way she goes.

First, I’m a parent. That’s a given. Secondly, I’m a wife. And my marriage requires a certain amount of upkeep that demands attention. My friends, hobbies, passions, and Bachelor reruns come last, if at all. If I’m really lucky, I’ll do my nails while I’m watching Bachelor. I’m usually not that lucky,

So it’s pretty safe to say, I sometimes forget to call that friend back for a nice phone conversation. I may cancel plans for lunch, and I may totally space out booking another get together. But I know what happens when I try to take everything on.

I become too absorbed in trying to accomplish it all, and then frustrated when things don’t work out exactly according to plan. In the end, nothing gets done and I feel even worse, as if the day was wasted.

It’s much easier for everyone, but mostly me, if I delegate responsibilities as I can, and even decline offers when I know I probably should. Even if this means not touching my computer for nearly a month to finish a blog post. It’ll always be there. But some things, like my family, are more important.

In the time it’s taken me to write this, Bruce has gotten up three times and decided he was NOT going to be sleeping in his crib, and has succumbed to sleep on the couch next to me. I’m afraid to move him, and since sleep is so important, I will be snuggling him here. I’ll at least get a trash tv buddy.

It’s too easy to let life overwhelm you when you have so much on your plate. You have to just, as hard as it is, relax a little and think about what’s more important: When you find yourself just carrying the baby all the way upstairs to only get half-way down before they realize you’ve abandoned them to their own bed, and you don’t want to continue this routine five more times that night; then don’t. I believe it’s ultimately more important that you and your kid both have rest, and sanity. If you can let them camp out with you in your bed (or couch), and you both get rest, then do that. It’s not worth stressing over.

Because let’s say I continued the song and dance-we will go back and forth all night, until he catches a second wind and then can’t go back to sleep. We will both get up tomorrow cranky. I have a cocktail party on Saturday I have to prepare for, which means cleaning/organizing the house, and a shopping trip to the grocery store planned around naps my son will now, not be taking because he’s cranky. I’ll forget to call my guest list because I’ll be rushed. I’ll snap at my husband for putting grease and oil stained clothes from his car project, on the newly mopped laundry room floor. He won’t help Saturday when I really need Bruce entertained as I cut up cheese, because I yelled at him. Bruce, who was cranky the day before and will most likely have fought good sleep again throughout that night, will become the top contender for the ‘Clingy Baby Award’ and during my hundredth attempt to placate him with a toy;I’ll remember that I never called my guest list, and wonder why I ever bother to agree to hosting cocktail parties.

It seems like I can avoid a lot of that stress by just not worrying about the upcoming tasks at hand, or even how early I must be up in the morning. And just snuggle this spoiled  little Goober on the couch, watch tv until I know he’s passed out enough to put in his crib, and try to slowly take each minute of the day as easily as possible. If I get something done, great. If not, then the oil and dirt streaks on the floor will make a great conversation piece during my cocktail party, that my husband will actually attend because he won’t be pouty. That’s if anyone shows up, because I’m not going to worry about calling them. That’s what facebook invites are for.

It’s not good for anyone to have too many irons in the fire. So I’m only going to pick out the hottest to deal with.

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My plunge into the world of blogging

Wait,  is this another one of those “mommy blogs?

Sort of.

I can’t promise perfect grammar, the answers to life’s questions, recipes only your Grandma remembers, or even a new way to earn money from the comfort of your own home!

 

What I can promise is to share my experiences; as a woman, as a wife, and as a mother. Some truth mixed in with some humor, some opinion, a little inspiration (hopefully) and part of myself. Hey, as a stay at home mom I gotta do something for fun, right?

 

Maybe some of my stories, thoughts, and experiences can give you tools in your own journey through life. A laugh or two,  new idea, solace in the thought that someone shares the same views as yourself…

 

Or you might just decide “This chick is crazy…” and not give these blogs a second glance and find someone worth reading (send links if you do! )… either way,  I hope you get something useful from my ramblings.

 

I have (at this time) a nine month old son, a husband,  an obsession with cloth diapers,  friends going through all walks of different relationships I can live vicariously through and a kitty…. something for everyone I like to think. We will see. Its gonna be exciting to dive into the world of blogging. I’m gonna try to stick around a while-hope you will too ♡